BIGGEST NEWS EVER!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
It is a good thing that all my readers are sitting down at their computers! I have some crazy, wild, fun news to share with you! Matthew and I are having a baby!!!! Yes, you heard that right, a baby!!! And, the crazier thing than that is that I am already 20 weeks along! Halfway there! Sorry it has taken me so long to share but I wanted to make sure that each and every person that I knew "in person" had been told. I didn't want friends and family members finding out by reading the blog. They would have flipped out! ha.ha. But, since I'm pretty sure we've told everyone we want to tell, I'll be able to start talking about all things baby. Don't worry, this blog will still be a travel blog too. We plan on starting the traveling early with our little one!
I know you guys must have tons of questions. Some of my friends and family have asked these same questions so I thought I'd go ahead and share my answers to them. I plan to have many, many photos to share in the coming days. I'll start at "the beginning" when we found out the news all the way back in August. So, keep checking back. Until then, here are the questions and answers.
1) A baby?! I thought you two wanted to adopt from China and had never really considered having a baby the old-fashioned way?
Answer: Yes, this is mostly true. We had decided early on that we didn't really want to have a baby the regular way because we only wanted 1 child and we wanted that child to be from China. I just met the age requirement for China last week (age 30) when we could have submitted our paperwork for China adoption but right now we just don't have that kind of cash lying around. It is sad that it costs so much money to adopt from China, way too much in my opinion, but what can you do? We do still want to adopt from China one day though, just not right now. Don't worry, we are very financially capable of having a baby, just not movie star loaded like you have to be to adopt from China these days. We had decided over 5 years ago that China was the path we wanted to take and then when I was approaching the 30 year old bench mark and we still weren't ready to do our China adoption we thought, why not try to have a baby? We feel that we have room in our hearts and home for 2 children after all, so why not?
2) We didn't even know you were trying! Why didn't you say anything?
Answer: Uhhh, this one weirds me out a bit. ha.ha. I know some people don't mind discussing their sex lives with friends and relatives, but I am not one of those people. ha.ha. I didn't want to say anything about a baby until a baby was on the way.
3) When are you due?
Answer: I have been told that my due date is 4/13/09 but my ultra sound reads one week later than that at 4/20/09. I wouldn't be surprised if the baby comes anytime from the end of March to the middle of April.
4) What does Matthew think about all this?
Answer: Matthew has been an absolute rock. He goes with me to each and every appointment, shops for baby gear, and is just really into the whole pregnancy. I couldn't ask for a better husband or a father-to-be for our baby.
5) To MaLeah: What did your parents say?
Answer: My mom flipped out and nearly crushed me to death with hugs. My dad quietly left the room. ha.ha. I don't think he knew what to do, but he is excited about having two grandkids soon (ours and my nephew).
6) This isn't really a question but more of a comment we've gotten, "Oh, we knew you'd be blessed with a child one day. Sometimes it just takes a very, very long time."
Answer: What in the world?! Isn't it still quite normal to enjoy just being a couple BEFORE you have children? Yes, our child is definitely a blessing but we haven't been trying to get pregnant since the day we were married like everyone seems to think. ha.ha. We tried very hard NOT to get pregnant. If you really must know, we started "trying" in mid March and were pregnant by the first part of July. So, it only took about 4 months. Not 6 years like most people seem to think. ha.ha. If anyone would like to see my birth control prescriptions as proof that we didn't try for 6 years, please send me your mailing address or fax number. ha.ha. There I go discussing the sex life, like I said I didn't want to, but I wanted to clear that up. ha.ha.
7) Do you know what it is yet?
Answer: Wouldn't you like to know?! Check back here in a few days and I just might tell you.
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